I love the idea of love. It is beautiful and enriching. But life becomes kind of funny and stressful—being an independent woman—when your boyfriend or partner is a penny pincher.

So, let’s stumble back in mind and check what’s been going wrong and how can you manage to be with these tight-arse Men!

1) Ask The Reason For Having A Tight Budget

First of all, let’s begin with genuine reason because I don’t want to offend my male readers. Find out the reason why your lover is saving money. There might be a genuine cause like future plans, family stress, or secret plans of proposing you!

If he is living for a vision, it will be wrong to tag him as a miser. In such a case you too should support his vision.

2) Prepare Your Financial Statement And Budgets Together

If it’s hurting your female pride (Yes! We females have pride like male ego!), then cut the argument short by making the monthly or weekly budget together.

3)Try And Compromise Your Expenses

Well, this option wouldn’t work for me because I’m crazy mad about shopping. But you can try it out. You never know it might jump start the spark in your relationship, girl.

Be smart and make a list of unnecessary shopping habits you have, that’s compelling your partner to be frugal.

4) Communicate Clearly That He Needs To Spend More

Ladies, pay attention! This one is my favorite. Bring forward your communication skills and show him that either he can be a lover or a Kanjus. (Joking!)

On a serious note, speak up and shut his silly miser habits. It’s not cool to save every little penny just to increase the bank balance. He needs to develop a better personality and improve his spending habits. Maybe, you can teach him that, being the smart one in this relationship. But this will only happen, once you talk about it!

Go girl! Tell him you need to go out more, you need to be pampered more, whatever comes to your mind to change his point of view!

5) Don’t Be The First One To Fetch The Clutch

Okay, my Kitty Cats! Here’s the final advice that will save you from the worst date ever with a scrooge lover.

Read slowly but implement it fast

While you’re on a date with him, don’t always put the card of feminism on the table. It can backfire, like in this case. You don’t need to act all feminine. Instead, you need to act smart and, on the spot, to escape the embarrassing situation of always being the first one to pay.

1.Wait for seconds and even a minute: Do not hurry! Take time and observe if he is going to fetch his purse. Most of the times, a scrooge boyfriend will wait for you to do that. Play the reverse psychology and let him be in your shoes for once.

2.Excuse to go for the bathroom: As soon as the meal is over and the bill is asked, fake a nature’s call. Rush to the washroom and wait for 10-15 minutes. He will be forced to pay the bill, the majority of the times.

3. Arrange a fake call you got to attend: Set a secret code with your friend, and keep her or him in the loop while you are on the date. Find that perfect chance when your boyfriend is not looking at you, and send the code to your best friend. S/he will call you, and act like you’re not getting signal. Rush outside, and now wait till he comes out, after paying the bill.

4. Purposely bring only half money: Again, use your brain and only bring half the cash along with you. Put him in a situation where even you would not be able to help him at any cost. Simply speaking, you will be bounding him into a condition, in which he will have to pay no matter what.

Over To You

Comment below if you liked what you’ve read just now! I’m waiting for your dear responses!! You can also ask your boyfriend to share his thoughts too (LOL!)